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19 April (Part 2) - The love-in continues

This is an ongoing time intensive project which will be augmented as time permits. The first five eulogies below are from the first 15% only of the overall run time. This blog will take several days to complete.


Councillor Wendy Perfect (Labour)
Two and a half hours into last week’s Council meeting it was retiring Labour Councillor Wendy Perfect’s turn to speak. It is not easy to become a Councillor she said. Getting selected and getting elected and then serving the electorate. “It is not easy when Local Government is starved of cash” but she believed “that Councillors on both sides of the Chamber wished to serve residents well”.

She said she had been a Labour Party supporter since the age of twelve and never changed although she did once stand for the Charlton Athletics supporters party in Greenwich. “Charlton needed help more than Labour in Greenwich. 290 votes for a one issue party. The highlight of the past four years has been the election of Daniel Francis MP. A fantastic MP. I am very proud of him. It has also been a joy to work alongside Councillor Baljeet Gill in Northumberland Heath.”

Councillor Lisa Moore (Conservative)
“Tonight we say farewell to 14 Councillors plus one. {Esther Amaning who is seeking election in an unwinnable ward.] They have shaped this borough in ways that will be felt for many years to come. I will speak about four remarkable women”.

“Cheryl Bacon because she is the reason I am standing here. We met and became friends at a children’s poolside and before I knew it I was out canvassing at weekends. Thank you Cheryl for encouraging me to take the leap into local politics.”

“Baroness O’Neill who has given 28 years of service to this borough. You welcomed me with warmth and generosity and your commitment to residents has been extraordinary. Your kindness will stay with me for ever.”

“Councillor Sue Gower. What a privilege to be part of your Mayoral team, your warmth, authenticiy, leadership, integrity and unending energy sets a standard for all of us. I am honoured to have had you as my friend.”

“Councillor Perfect and I served together on Committees and she asked questions that needed to be asked and came from genuine care.”

“My ward husband Andy Dourmoush, a steady source of support and I am grateful for the partnership we shared. Thank you.”

Councillor Zainab Asunramu (Labour)
“I speak of my dear friend Mabel Ogundayo. We first met at University in the East Midlands. Focused, determined, grounded and a lot of fun. Her impact cannot be ignored. We met again while both working for Amnesty International UK. The same values, the same passion, the same unwavering belief in justice. And then we found ourselves as Thamesmead East colleagues which I will always be grateful for. She has given over three terms and so much of herself to Bexley, not for recognition and titles but because she genuinely cares. She fought Peabody and fought for families and has been governor of three schools.”

“Mabel is a true friend and ally in both words and actions pushing for change even when it is not popular. She will make a difference wherever she goes.”

Note: This is but a short sub-set of the accolades showered on Councillor Ogundayo. F om what I have seen, all well deserved.

Councillor Anna Day (Labour)
“Ward colleague Stef has been great and will be missed and we have not had a cross word in four years. He concentrated on his beloved trains and buses and I on housing, health and community safety but I absolutely won’t miss him as a passenger telling me the routes I should have taken and gesticulating at anybody who gets in the way. We message each other umpteen times a day and I will continue to send him photos of my cats.”

She thanked Council officers and urged them to join a union. Residents were asked to remember that May 7th is a local election and not a verdict on the Labour government. “Vote for local Councillors on what they have achieved, not on sound bites. Make sure you vote based on positive messages and for Councillors who can be trusted to put residents to the forefront of their decisions.”

Councillor Chris Taylor (Conservative)
Councillor Taylor wished all Conservatives “the very best in their future endeavours but I want to particularly pay tribute to Baroness O’Neill, one of my closest friends. She has dedicated 28 years of her life to the betterment of Bexley residents. She has been instrumental in putting Bexley on the map. Bexley is a special place. The Leader has delivered the new Civic site and much needed family housing [the monstrosity on the old Civic site].”

She has regenerated Thamesmead and Sidcup High Street and saved the Queen Mary Hospital site. A leading part in saving Bexley’s police station, I could go on and on.

“As Boris Johnson’s Outer London adviser she put Bexley’s interests front and centre and we have all benefited. We are rightly proud.”

“I couldn’t have asked for a better ward colleague. Her commitment to residents of Crook Log has been second to none. We will miss her greatly but her biggest impact is as a friend.”

“When I lost my seat in 2014 [to UKIP] I was devastated. Being a Councillor had been so much part of my life and I felt I could not see the light at the end of the tunnel. Madam Mayor, Baroness O’Neill was there for me. She doesn’t realise how she kept me going at a very difficult time in my life and I will be forever grateful. There will be others here with similar stories. She gave me the two best jobs I have ever had. Cabinet Member for Adults’ Services and latterly of Children and Families. I thank her for her faith in me.

“Baroness O’Neill is one of those rarities in politics who chose to step away from power at a time of her own choosing. She can now add value to Bexley in the House of Lords. She can protect our green spaces. Bexley Council’s loss is the Upper House’s gain. We will miss you Teresa.”

Councillor Mabel Ogundayo (Labour)
“It has been the honour of my life to serve the residents of Thamesmead for twelve years. My first aspirations were to change how people saw politics. What they looked like, what they sounded like and where they came from and I hope I have been able to do that. There are some things I won’t miss, like sending emails in the middle of the night or taking on case work that should take a day and instead takes up two years. I will miss the community and the people I have been able to have a positive impact on.”

I must thank great Council and ward colleagues like Zainab Asunramu who was chair of the Afro-Caribbean Society when we met at university and it has been a pleasure to know you and you will continue to do graet things for this Council. Thank you so much.”

Councillor Esther hear hear Amaning, we joined the Council at the same time and I want to thank you so much, We didn’t understand what we were getting ourselves into but it has been amazing and when you were my ward colleague we ran the Keep Thamesmead Tidy campaign and we picked up lots of rubbish and did great stuff together. Esther has not had the easiest couple of years but your resilience has inspired me. I don’t know if you have seen Esther drive, but she recently gave up driving and that is the best thing she could have done for anybody - and for Bexley! Me driving you to meetings etc. has been one of the most pleasant times I have ever had and I look forward to driving you to future lunch dates.

I would like to thank Stef, my fantastic Leader, while we may not always agree, we do talk things through. I’d like to thank Officers and Peabody the biggest landowner in Thamesmead and who made the greatest investment. When they first arrived in Thamesmead I was very sceptical but over the years they proved themselves to be a genuine partner and committed to Community focused investment. They have done a really great job and with the DLR on the horizon there are really great things to happen in Thamesmead. And to Peabody, if they are listening, please bring back the Youth Club.

To Councillors, thank you for making me the person I am today whether I wanted it or not. You have helped me grow and I look forward to seeing a Labour Council after May. Thank you everyone.


Note: The foregoing is not ansolutely verbatim. Whole sentences are occasionally omitted and what remains is edited for brevity. Some redundant words are dropped. It may be regarded as verbatim with omissions.

There is a lot more of this to come.

 

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